Personal and Intimacy

Hi guys,
so I've been thinking about sex and losing virginity as yet another girl has stupidly wasted it on some 'lad' she didn't even know when she was drunk- I do not under any circumstances want that to be me. So I just thought wouldn't it be best if everyone lost their virginity to someone they cared about in a non-sexual way? So that they don't have any expectations and it isn't awkward afterwards? So that they are 100% comfortable with this person and they can trust them not to brag about it? Yes ladies and gentleman, I am suggesting that everyone should feel that it is acceptable to lose their virginity to their best friend. I think this would be best as it means that the girl would know that the guy is not just using them for sex as they know them better than anyone else, I mean, if it's a true friendship then it won't 'ruin' your relationship with that person, who knows, it may even enhance it into something romantic.
I'm not suggesting that this is good for everyone as obviously people are different- in fact, no one should take any sort of advice from me about intimacy and relationships as I am just about the least sexually active teenager I know. But for me, this is how I would want my first time, unless by some freak chance I end up in a stable relationship in the nearish future (which I highly doubt given my current state). If two people have been best friends for a long time and they've so far been able to ignore all the teenage angst and frustration (because lets be realistic, none of you internet friends can honestly say that you have never ever ever thought of your best friend in that way) then I think that the first time would be a comfortable and loving experience as you would really care about each other and it wouldn't just be based on looks (girls are self conscious after all)
It just kills me a little bit inside when I hear about all these girls that just want to 'get it over with', but then again it's not the most realistic thought that someone would just say to their best friend 'I think we should lose our virginity to each other, just because erm I don't know if I love you but erm yeah...'
Oh and slight change of tone to all the 'lads' out there- taking advantage of intoxicated girls does not make you a 'lad' you will be praised so good for you jackass but she will be known as a slut so how about you pluck up the courage to be a man and have some respect for the girls your age and no sexual frustration and alcohol does not justify your completely unacceptable behavior so would you please control your arousal because to be frank, you probably aren't as good looking when she's sober so how about you actually take her on a date then maybe you will understand that sex is actually better when you're sober and in a loving relationship where you don't have to get her drunk for her to give you head. So no it is not okay to 'hump her and dump her' girls are sensitive and that hurts.
Sorry that turned into more of a rant at the end but you should all understand my point.
Underaverage Girl
xxx